The Zeliangrong lifecycle: Rites and ceremonies
- Part 2 -

Budha Kamei *

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In this situation, there must have been the tendency to multiply the population of the male member of the clan groups to claim their superiority in strength and power to each other. Whitely says "The happiness lot for a man, as far as birth is concerned, is that it should be such as to give him but little occasion to think much about it".

The birth ceremonies comprise a number of rites and the main aim of all these rites is to secure the child and sometime the mother from evil forces, evil eyes and diseases. According to English and German school, the childbirth rites are aimed for a better operation of limbs, strength and skills of the child. These consist in the course of separation, transition and incorporation. The child's first transitional period occurs with the mother's last transition leading her come back to the society from child birth.

As soon as the child is given birth, the child is exposed to the evil forces who are anxious to injure the child and to obtain possession of it, sometimes even bodily, and substitute for it a changing. Every possible precaution is then taken to frustrate the action of the evils, and to grant as much as protection as possible to the baby. First, the child is bathed with luke warm water for healthy and long life.

According to Arnold Van Gennep, the first bath of the baby is only for hygienic purpose and it is also a rite of separation from his mother. This is called Dui Loumei. Then, the child is put in its mouth a little chewed rice which indicates the baby is being claimed as human being since human food is given. It is also alleged to be for the healthy and long life of the child. This ritual is locally known as Nap Mumloumei.

A provisional name is immediately given for the child in the belief that if the evil spirits name first it is not good. Thereafter, the child is fastened around with a black thread at the neck, wrists and ankles signifying to the evil forces that the baby who comes from the other world is locked up in the human world so no damage is to be given to the baby. It is also believed that the evil spirits or forces are afraid of black thread. This is called Laangmumei Taloumei.

An elder of village Pei [Ganchang or Banja] who acts as priest will shake the child pronouncing: 'Bangla, Bangla, Bangla' not to cause any dizziness to the child in future. Then, the child on a Paantanglu, winnowing fan will be placed on its parent's bed saying: "Long live the child and let fresh hair grow and accommodate him to sleep on the Paantanglu".

A mark is put on the forehead of the child with the mixture of burnt ashes of Khamjon [Plectranthus Termifolius D. Don] and water as protection from evil forces. This is called Khamjonli Kasan Kanmei. It is believed that Khaamjon is the tongue of Tenglam, the divine priest of Tingkao Ragwang, the Supreme God. Hence, it is commonly used after worship for purpose of protection or to drive off the malevolence forces.

Nalam Phuploumei means to inter the placenta and after birth of the child. Like the Poumai Naga, they also bury the placenta inside the house, which is near the mother's bed close to the wall and never outside the house. Why they burry inside the house is mainly in the idea that the child will sense itself endlessly drawn to its parent's house even after it has grown up.

A propitiation called Duikhun Laman Reimei is observed on the third day after birth at the Duikhun, village pond where the blood smeared garments of the mother were washed. It is believed that if this act of propitiation is not observed, the child will have poor health. On the coming of fifth day, in the early morning, Penbam Reimei ceremony is performed just against the spot where the placenta is buried as a precaution to avoid from evil destruction. This is the first and compulsory sacrificial rite in the life cycle of an individual.

When a child is completed for five days, a ceremony locally recognized as Najum Gaimei Khatni Nasan Kanmei is performed in the family of the child. This is the first spiritual ceremony in the life cycle of an individual. In this ceremony, the priest offers a beautiful cock and a beautiful hen called Sangdai and Sanglou to Tingkao Ragwang, and Dampapui for wellbeing, prosperity and long line of generation of the child. The legs of the victims are observed in search of good signs.

After this ceremony, the child is treated as a human being. It also declares the existence of a child in the society and the responsibility of the parents to bring up the child. It is said the birth ceremony which is observed on fifth day has been fixed on the basis of the faith of the people in the menstrual period of woman who takes bath and wash her cloth on the fifth day of the said period.

In this ceremony, the priest will confer a name for the child or get confirmed the provisional name [given on the day of its birth] which was found better without giving a new name. It is a rite of incorporation which introduces the child into the family because without a name, a person cannot be counted as a member of the family. Fuller says, "A name is a kind of face whereby one is known."

Most commonly the ancestor names are given to the children. The name is given sometime having some definite signification, and mostly alluding to some supposed quality or to some accidental circumstance which have happened at the time of birth. In this regard, Colonel McCullock writes, "Five days after the birth of a child it is named with various ceremonies names are not given at random but are compounds of father's and grand father's names or those of other near relations".

The indigenous names in case of boys are Pantilung which denotes long life, Tampikhon means protector and host of the house, Lanchonglung signifies wealth and for girls are Gairuna implies good girl, Gaithoiru indicates a very prosperous lady girl etc. The first born is a boy; they give such name like Pouganglei or Pouchalei which means first born son or first come son.

The second, third and fourth are given only generic names. And the last one is a boy they give name like Poukhamlung or Pougangkham which denotes last born son or Last come son. In case of girl, the first born is given name like Luchalei or Luleilu or Luhoulei which indicates first born daughter or first daughter or first seen daughter and the last one is a daughter, Lukhamlu means last daughter. The cooked Loithin, livers of Sangdai and Sanglou are placed separately on two plates of banana leaf along with a lump of cooked rice, and a piece of ginger on each plate.

Then, the priest with a piece of ginger in his hand and purifies the child by chanting the hymn called Kasan Kanmei soi. With the end of recitation, a portion of liver of Sangdai, a piece of ginger, a lump of rice along with a small quantity of holy wine is poured on the forehead of the child. The same process is repeated with the liver of Sanglou. This is locally called Nasan Kanmei.

Normally, after birth, the mother is advised to take only plain foods without curry such as cooked rice, dry fish or meat along with salt for certain days or months. It is observed for about three months in case of first born and in other cases only five days. Like his wife, the husband also is supposed to take only plain food for five days for the wellbeing of his offspring. But nowadays, the process is made easy that the father takes only five lumps of cooked rice instead of taking for five days.

Among the Zeliangrongs, the first birth has a social significance, because with the birth of a child, the mother is no longer a mere woman, she raises her moral and social position and becomes a legitimate wife of the husband. It is not possible to get a divorce from a woman who is given birth one or more children; among the people whose customs permit divorce easy. The child is considered a certificate of the parent's union and a kind of bond token between them.

Among the Hindu, there is a belief that "He only is a perfect man who consists of three persons united – his wife, himself and his offspring, and immediately on the birth of his first born a man is called the father of a son and is freed from the debt to the manes". There is a custom of the Zeliangrongs that parent designating themselves by the name of the first born, say, Poudim, and father of Poudim and mother of Poudim. It is a widespread custom. It is believed to be created in the natural prides of the parents at the birth of a child in whom they are now essence to immerse their personality.

Like other communities of the world, feeding the child with mother milk is the normal practice among the Zeliangrongs and feed their children as long as milk is available in the breasts. It continues till the arrival of the next baby because milk of the mother is considered best. It is a normal feature that an offspring has to depend on its mother for its nourishment and bodily comfort. "Physiologically there exists a passionate instinctive interest of the mother in the child, and a craving of the suckling for the maternal organism, for the warmth of her body, the support of her arms and above all, the milk and contact of her breast".

Everywhere "it is to the mother the immediate care of the children chiefly belongs, while the father is the protector and guardian of the family ……the simplest paternal duties are ……… universally recognized". The first reply of the mother when a child cries is to put her breasts at the mouth of the child and the child cries longer, the mother consumes greater time on its suckling. Thus, the child is always made available mother's milk so that the child may be able to satisfy its hunger. The mother stops feeding her milk only when she becomes pregnant because the milk of the mother breaks short and it is necessary to alienate the child for the cause of the next child.

Nasammei, feeding the child with solid food is observed on any lucky day when the child attains five or six months in which the child gets first solid food for the first time. The family cooks a beautiful bird or fish of white colour on this occasion and feeds the child with it ritually. Feeding the child with solid food is very important when the child reaches this age. With the growth of its body, the child is not satisfied with the milk of the mother. Now, something solid is necessitated as its food. This is for this factor that the child is given ceremoniously with the solid food, which symbolizes the milk of the Mother Earth, which is called as second mother of the child. The first mother is the real mother of the child.

Nanu-ngai, an ear-piercing festival is observed in the month of February-March every year. In the festival each child born in the previous year gets his or her ear-pierced at the house of old women called Kengja Kaibang. This ceremony is called Nanukon Louphoumei. Each family of the child will bring gifts such as vegetables, cooked chicken curry, salt plates, Tamti, black rice specially cooked for the purpose etc. to the Kengja Kaibang.

It is done in the name of the child with thanksgiving and happiness in honour of Tingkao Ragwang and Dampapui. This is called Nanu Tamcha Ponmei. Nasang Saanmei, meaning singing of fertility song is carried out by the senior members of male dormitory in the Nanu-ngai for more reproduction off springs in the village. In the evening of the festival, old women perform Nanu dance with traditional sexual inspiring songs sung by the old men in each households of the child. At the end of the dance, Kon-luh is sung inside the house for long life of the child.

Young children who are not yet enrolled in the dormitories such as Khangchu and Luchu are permitted to eat any taboo food. T.C Hudson has rightly stated that in Zeliangrong society food tabus are not rigidly imposed on either the very young or the old. However, a propitiation called Galao Rou-Kara Rarei is suggested to perform sacrificing a cock not to happen any evil consequences while consuming the taboo food. When a child attains the age of 7/8 years, a ritual called Ganlao Rarei is performed offering a cock to Dampapui for healthy growth of the child. A propitiation called Purumkhang Purumlu Rarei is observed when a child becomes a young teenager to avoid untimely sexual lust.

The transition from childhood to adolescence varies from society to society. In Zeliangrong society, when a child reaches the age of fourteen or fifteen years old, he or she is introduced to the particular dormitory. The initiation rite is performed at the festival of Gaan-Ngai in which a piece of meat known as Janphop will be given to him or her by the leader of the particular dormitory as formal recognition of its member. This is called Khangchu Kailu Thaimei.

According to Dictionary of religion, initiation is "one who has entered the stream of wider and deeper consciousness". It is a rite which separates the boy or girl from the sexual world and incorporated into the world of sexuality. Traditionally, after initiation, a boy or girl is considered as physically and socially matured person and permitted to get married because he or she has the capability of reproduction.

To be continued .....