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The art of resetting : Mastering focus amidst distractions

Samchetsabam Ratankumar Singh *



Modern researchers rightly assert that the greatest challenge today’s generation faces is not merely focusing but knowing where to focus. Everyone seems to be in a rush, searching for shortcuts and desiring quick results without investing the necessary effort, proper planning, research, skillset, or mindset.

Philosophers, researchers, and successful leaders agree on one key principle: the perspective you hold about yourself shapes your journey toward success. When you feel stuck, reflect on moments from your childhood—when your ideas were fresh, curiosity was boundless, and every possibility felt within reach. Why should success feel unattainable now?

The Problem of Information Overload

Today, the sheer volume of information bombards us from all directions, creating a paradox of toxic positivity. Everyone has access to a wealth of information, but how often do we verify its accuracy? Many people begin sharing surface-level knowledge without truly understanding the depth of the subject.

This phenomenon often results in people listening only to respond rather than to understand. Superficial advice spreads quickly, especially among younger generations, outpacing the wisdom shared by seasoned professionals. True understanding, however, requires depth, conviction, and experimentation—qualities often missing from the information we consume today.

The result ? Toxic positivity that perpetuates shallow perspectives, preventing us from embracing the depth and richness of real knowledge.

Mastering the Art of Losing Distractions

We often hear advice like, “Reset yourself,” “Celebrate small wins,” or “Break tasks into smaller steps.” While valuable, these principles work best when paired with the art of getting LOST:
LOST from social media.
LOST from toxic positivity.
LOST from distractions like TV, unhealthy food, outdated mindsets, biases, and unnecessary politics.
LOST from enticing but meaningless headlines that drain your energy.

This doesn’t mean these things are inherently bad. But until you develop the right mindset, skillset, and resilience to handle such distractions, it’s better to avoid what doesn’t align with your goals.

The Bamboo Analogy

Consider the bamboo plant: it spends years growing its roots before shooting up rapidly to become one of the strongest grasses. Its strength lies in its deep foundation, which no wind or storm can uproot. Similarly, building resilience, knowledge, and character takes time and patience. But once developed, these qualities create a foundation strong enough to weather any storm.

The Cost of Distraction: A YouTube Example

Let’s consider YouTube as a case study. The platform earns revenue in two primary ways:
The Distracted Group: This group spends hours on screen time, scrolling endlessly, consuming ads, and engaging with superficial content. They provide YouTube with millions of impressions, generating significant ad revenue.

The Purposeful Group: This group values their time, avoids distractions, and uses tools like ad blockers or premium subscriptions to eliminate interruptions. They prioritize learning, focus on purposeful content, and maintain their mental clarity.

Both groups use the same platform, yet their approaches—and outcomes— are vastly different. Now, imagine spending years consuming toxic, irrelevant content versus consciously distancing yourself from it. The difference is stark and manifests in every aspect of life—physically, mentally, emotionally, and intellectually. The latter group experiences growth, while the former stagnates.

This example highlights how consciously choosing to eliminate distractions can set the stage for success, growth, and focus.

Lessons From School Days

When I feel challenged, I often reflect on my school days—a group full of positivity, a powerhouse of energy, a mind space full of openness, and a place where everyone loved the association. We understood the value of connection, where every interaction, whether solving a problem or just sharing a laugh, reinforced our bond.

Back then, my classmates and I unknowingly developed timeless leadership skills that remain relevant:

Prompt responses: Seeking help or solutions quickly, such as borrowing notes when someone missed a class.
Empathy and encouragement: Supporting one another during tough times, like when a friend helped me apply for a scholarship while I recovered from surgery.
Critical thinking: Solving problems creatively, especially in challenging subjects like math.
Adaptability: Adjusting to new teachers, subjects, and challenges while ensuring everyone felt included.
Collaboration: Working as a cohesive unit despite our diverse family backgrounds, particularly during science projects or group activities.
Humor and positivity: Finding joy in the little things, like singing songs during breaks or cracking jokes to lift each other’s spirits.
Effective communication: Expressing ideas meaningfully in group discussions, casual conversations, or presentations.
Delegation: Dividing responsibilities during group activities, like planning class dinners or picnics, ensuring everyone contributed beyond financial means.
Conflict resolution: Resolving disagreements amicably, often with humor, and maintaining harmony within the group.
A sense of belonging: Taking pride in being part of a supportive batch that valued collective growth and success.

These shared experiences taught us resilience, teamwork, and democratic leadership. We learned to listen to and value others’ perspectives, reinforcing the idea that leadership is not about one person taking charge but about lifting each other up.
Looking back, I feel immense pride in being part of that group—a batch that embodied leadership through empathy, collaboration, humor, and perseverance.

Success Through Baby Steps

After stepping into the corporate world, I’ve realized that we are all natural-born leaders. We possess the ability to face challenges, expand ideas, provide actionable insights, demonstrate flexibility, embrace a willingness to learn, adapt to change, excel in research skills, and connect globally. However, the foundation of success lies in mastering the basics and taking small, consistent steps.

Resetting isn’t about quitting; it’s about refocusing. As Richard Nixon wisely said:
A man is not finished when he is defeated; he is finished when he quits.

By committing to the art of losing distractions and anchoring ourselves in resilience and purpose, we lay the groundwork for true success.


* Samchetsabam Ratankumar Singh wrote this article for The Sangai Express
The writer is Associate Director – Marketing Operations
Certified in 100+ Skillsets,
AIR Speaker, LinkedIn Contributor
Worked with 10+ reputed global firms, Columnist
This article was webcasted on January 22, 2025 .



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